Legitimate Question, What is it like to be gay or lesbian?
Alyx, 16
I39;ve spent some time thinking about this. No, I39;m not trying to offend any one of you. But... I used to be called a "homophobe" or "transphobe" when really my opinions and/or fears aren39;t phobic. They are legitimate opinions and fears, such as my fear of being dominated and forced into unspeakable acts by another male. It makes sense, because it39;s happened to others. It39;s happened to me, actually. Really, just because someone isn39;t interested or has a fear, that doesn39;t make them "homophobic".
But all in all, my questions are these:
What is it like for you, specifically, to be gay or lesbian? Why did you decide on this*****ity? Have you found any people to talk to in general ever since this decision happened? Do you think this was or is the right choice for you currently?
Again, I39;m not trying to offend or make anyone question themselves again. I39;m legitimately curious to hear about what39;s going on with what most people wouldn39;t dare to ask: What makes you different from what was and kinda still is, the socially accepted norm.
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